Gender shock!

Maranda
We had our gender reveal party yesterday.  I did not find out, because I wanted to find out with the rest of my family.  I was hoping for a boy because we had a name picked out.  A girl would mean that my aunt and my husband 's grandmother would expect us to name her after them.  His grandmother even tried to bribe me! 
So when we found out it is a girl, I cried.  I'm so stressed over picking the perfect name.  I'm upset that I couldn't be happy at the party yesterday because of the name pressure.
So on that note, are there any middle name suggestions for Lilly?