Confused af

I’ve been with my man about 5 /6 years now. I’m 27, he’s 41. When we met he initially lied about his age. I tried to look past it and move on.

We now have a 1 year old. This weekend he got mad and wants to break up. He wants to break up bc I don’t enjoy giving him head.

Y’all I do it until he comes at least once a week sometimes twice. Now he is upset bc I was doing it for like 20-39 minutes on Valentine’s Day and he didn’t cum bc he had been drinking. Now suddenly on Sunday he say I owe him head from Valentine’s today. I’m like no I don’t and then he says I do bc it was hurting when o did it on Valentine’s. Mind you he never said that until Sunday! I said I would just not that day bc I didn’t feel like it.

I’ve been apologizing since bc he’s been all silent and saying we’re separating when the lease is up.

I cried myself to sleep last night after apologizing and he said nothing.

Today. He’s like I’m childish and forever gonna be cheated on bc I don’t like giving head and have never sucked his balls. First off sucking balls is just not my thing. Or coming in my mouth. But I can do head until he comes like once a week.

Am I wrong y’all? Do I need to give head on demand and suck balls to keep my man? Like wtf. How often do y’all do it?

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Al

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Run far, far away from this ungrateful prick.

A

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girl absolutely NOT. he’s a controlling asshole, NO WOMAN ever should do whatever a man wants on demand. you are not a sex doll you’re a PERSON, his equal. my man never does that, he’s grateful with whatever i give him

F

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Ummmmm he’s calling you childish?Your relationship shouldn’t be based on how often you give him head! And if that’s what he thinks, to me that sounds like something a teenage boy would say 🙈 🤷‍♀️I’m sorry you’re in this situation, I hope it gets resolved!
Ummmmm he’s calling you childish?Your relationship shouldn’t be based on how often you give him head! And if that’s what he thinks, to me that sounds like something a teenage boy would say 🙈 🤷‍♀️I’m sorry you’re in this situation, I hope it gets resolved!

Am

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He’s mentally and sexually abusing you, sexual activity is supposed to be consensual not coerced or forced, he’s taken advantage of your young age considering you’ve been together since the age of 21 and he’s significantly older.

Le

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Girl he is abusive and manipulative. Let him leave and find you a good man that appreciate you.

Br

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He’s actually in the wrong. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. So he’s saying it’s ok for him to cheat because of that?! I haven’t given my husband oral in almost a year and not once has he stepped out on me. Sounds like he’s childish and trying to manipulate you. I’d leave or let him leave and find someone that respects me.

Mo

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He’s calling YOU childish but then HE turns around and says you’re gonna break up because you don’t wanna give him head?If that doesn’t SCREAM immature and childish to me I don’t know what does. Tell him if he wants to break up then GOOD. You don’t need his controlling, abusive ass.
He’s calling YOU childish but then HE turns around and says you’re gonna break up because you don’t wanna give him head?If that doesn’t SCREAM immature and childish to me I don’t know what does. Tell him if he wants to break up then GOOD. You don’t need his controlling, abusive ass.

El

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Girl WTF!!! Why on earth do you think this is even semi normal enough behavior that you would post this and ask about this?? Is it not obvious enough to you that this is abuse?? Do you want to repeat this cycle for your child? They will grow up witnessing this and repeat it in their own relationships. You deserve better and your child deserves better.

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No...you don’t need to do that to keep a man. I’m living proof. We usually go a week without sex because we work opposite shifts and have a toddler. We don’t even do all the stuff you do probably. I’m sorry!

Sa

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