Should I be mad that my boyfriend has secret plans to go to a strip club with his friends?

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If he's hiding it coz he knows you won't like it that's pretty shady

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Strip clubs are just for sad ugly men to ogle pretty women they can’t get with. Anyone who goes to them I judge accordingly.

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I’d be mad because he kept it a secret AND because he’s going to the strip club. My bf knows my views on them. I may not be able to tell him what to do and where to go but I can make the choice to be with someone who doesn’t have the same views as me.

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Him hiding it from you is wrong, period.

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Why are his plans secret? I don’t tell my man what he can or cannot do. I’m not his mother.

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Why does it have to be a secret, why can't he just tell u up front "hey babe im going to do this ___” SMH makes no sense

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How did you find out about this “secret” as you say?

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Are you mad about the strip club or the secret? And if it’s a secret how do you know?

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Him feeling like he has to hide it and not communicate about is an issue. I'd definitely raise this with him and stick to your guns.

Should I be mad that my boyfriend has secret plans to go to a strip club with his friends?

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