I am 23 weeks pregnant with my 3 child unfortunately we lost are sweet baby girl last year in November I am now pregnant with are baby boy 🌈I am beyond thankful to be pregnant and we are over the moon for his arrival . the time is coming up and we have been talking about if we are going to have a baby shower or not ? I’m just so terrified last year we had a baby shower 7 days later we found out are baby girl no longer had a heartbeat 💗 I’m just scared that the same thing will happen again I’m hoping and praying it will not and we will be able to bring are son home but what do u guys think ? Should we just buy all the stuff or have a baby shower and pray and hope for the best ?