9 days late. Cycle day 40.


I’m not sure if I should be worried or not. I have 2 children, 1 previous ectopic resulting in losing my right tube,and 3 miscarriages under my belt. I have always been SUPER fertile. But I had my my remaining tube tied on April 6, 2017 the day my daughter was born, my periods aren’t regular but they’re not THIS irregular of being 9 days late either. I always cramp super bad but I’m not showing any signs of starting. I have not taken a test, not wanting to over react lol should I be worried?