Sooo... Me and my ex partner have been split up since March 17 we were togeyher for 3yrs but it was a violent abusive relationship and we both moved on within 6 months of the split and we have a now 3 1/2 yr old daughter together which he doesn't really bother with and I mean out of the 365 days last year he seen her 13 times a few days at a time. He's blocked me off everything so I can't contact him, took me to court for access which was never ever denied all's I've ever wanted is for him to see her more and well yesterday I find out he's having a baby with his gf of a year. She's due 6wks after me. I'm feeling pretty vivid because he doesn't bother with the child he already has and treated me so badly through the relationship via physical, mental and emotional abuse as well as cheating on me throughout the whole relationship/pregnancy and after she was born until I'd finally had enough and left. I just know he isn't going to bother with Our daughter at all after his new baby is born and I don't want her being left out and forgotten about. He was a mortgage on a two bedroom house for the next 10yrs so I know he won't be moving out of that house and our daughters bedroom is going to be turned into the new baby's and I'm not having my daughter sleep on the floor or sofa at his house because he's now got a new little family. I've tried and tried to get him to see her continuously for the last 2yrs and I've failed every time! Even the judge was baffled with the case! The ball has and still is in his court as to when he sees her but he just doesn't bother! I don't know what to do. I know I'm pregnant 19wks but I have been with my daughter 7 days a week 27/7 every day of her life and have had her baby sat a hand full of times because she is my child and my responsibility! I just need some advice as to what you ladies think I should do or if I'm overreacting on the matter. I just know he's going to forget about her even more then he already has!