How I feel...

Both my friends have babies and I’m glad because I love babies. However sometimes I feel left out because they always ask each other to watch each other’s kids but never me. I mean maybe I haven’t proven myself a babysitter but it would still feel nice just to be asked.. sometimes they even make plans to hang, have each other’s kids play together and go shopping and I wasn’t invited. I try not to make a big deal out of it but sometimes it does make me sad. I guess I need more friends without kids..

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el

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I wouldn’t take offense to it. Being a mom, I tend to hang with other moms. They understand things more than those without kids.

B

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Do they know you would like to step up and help babysit and do things? For me personally, I don’t ask ones without moms to babysit usually unless they tell me they want to because I feel like I’m burdening them. It’s worth talking to them.

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Maybe they feel like you don’t want to be bothered. As parents, we hate feeling like we’ve burdened someone with our children. If you offer, they may let you.

C

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Have you offered yourself to babysit?