2nd month off birth control and 1st month actively trying and AF came 5 days early. I hear that it’s not easy to get pregnant but for some reason I thought we’d get it right away.

Everyone around me is getting pregnant without evening trying and I even know a few people who got an abortion (which I support them because it’s their choice) but it’s just not fair.

My husband and I have been married for 6 months and together for 10 years (high school sweethearts I’m 23 and he’s 26). It’s hard because he wants this so bad and I cant help but feel it is my fault I did not get pregnant this month. His cousin just announced they are expecting a child (they are married but have only been together 2 years and were not trying) and it kind of seems like a stab in the gut because they are younger than my husband by about a year.

What do you ladies do to keep motivated when AF comes??