I’m 24. He’s 23. Our anniversary was Sunday (February 17) and I can’t stop crying.

Last night he went over a friends house to fix his truck. They’re both mechanics. It was 11:10pm and he texted me saying he was going home. Both of us live with our parents. I was up doing homework. At 1am he calls me with somewhat slurred speech. He was talking so much I couldn’t even talk or interrupt him. I hear his mom saying “stop calling her this late and don’t bother her” he asked me if he was bothering me and I said no. The worst part was him hearing him tell his mom “shut up and don’t tell me how to talk to my gf” (FYI: he wasn’t talking to me bad yet...)

His dad and him don’t have a good relationship because he has cheated on his mom. Anyways they got into a fight and told me his dad was accusing him of drinking with his friend and was calling him a crack head.

My heart sunk. Why would his dad say that he must have seen something going on. I asked him if he was under the influence of something and he said no. But his slurred speech had me wondering. I kept telling him “hey i gotta go to bed” and wouldn’t listen till I spoke a little louder and he finally said “ok bye babe”

We kept texting after the call and I asked him why would his dad assume he was doing cocaine or whatever. He said he hangs around some drug addicts but he doesn’t do that. He said his dad thinks he does. His friendship with those guys are work related and that the guy he had gone over to is 100% sober. He then tells me if he can borrow money due to being in debts. This isn’t the first time. I told him why did he keep asking me so much. He takes forever to repay. He got annoyed and left me on read.

I told him I didn’t mind lending but this was becoming a habit. It’s been 4 years that he doesn’t get me gifts on special occasions. I told him somehow every time I see him he has money for weed but not for a small card or a flower. He got infuriated and told me “you don’t get it man I’m tired of you. You told me you never cared about gifts now you’re telling me this.”

This morning I texted him saying I didn’t wanna sound materialistic but that a small card would have made my Valentine’s Day and anniversary so much better. He simply replied “find you’re self a better man and go screw yourself. I could have saved so much by not going to drive all the way to go see you and you’re bitching”

I told him I would make myself aside if I cause him financial instability or if I make his life miserable. He left me on read and I think this is his way of breaking up. 😢 I just feel like I invested so much time with him I won’t meet someone that truly loves me

(Edit: two days ago he told me he wanted to move out soon...he’s the fakest human being ever)