Can’t orgasm😫

Ever since I’ve been sexually active, I’ve had this issue. I literally can’t really feel anything at all and it drives me crazy🤦🏼‍♀️Anyone have any tips for me? I was thinking of getting a lube that would make me more sensitive.. anyone have any recommendations? I feel really freaking weird that im like this and I’m so embarrassed to tell my husband because I don’t want him to think it’s his fault because it’s not😫 is this even normal?😫