Did I do the right or wrong thing???

Question

So I was having a FWB with a man who i recently found out was married anyways I cannot message his wife on FB as they share an account...so I messaged her sister and best friend screen shots of the affair hoping they tell her....

I truly believe you cannot have your cake and eat it too!

did i do the right thing here????

I truly believe you cannot have your cake and eat it too!

did i do the right thing here????

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I wouldn't have gotten her sisters and friends involved. They didn't need to know their business like that, now they have the ability to gossip and shit about it.

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I mean, I get your intentions were probably in a good place.. but good intentions don't make good actions. Personally I would not have been dragging her friends and family into her personal relationship issues. That's sorta messed up. Now she has to worry about saving face in front of these people AND dealing with her husband running around with you.
Kinda a double whammy, imo.

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I mean, she has the right to know. If my husband was cheating on me I’d want to know. If that’s the only way you could tell her than I guess it is what it is. I wouldn’t say it’s the “right” thing.. the right thing is to not get involved with a married man in the first place. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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As a married person... yes, I think you did the right thing. I’d want to know. If you made an honest effort to contact her and couldn’t.. and the only option was family, then yea. That’s what I would want done for me.

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I guess I’m confused: his wife and him have a joint Facebook account so you couldn’t send the pictures...but you ain’t even look at his Facebook before starting this relationship? Or is looking him up how you discovered her? Either way I don’t think you should have involved other family members but hopefully she finds out what he is all about

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Honestly, you should’ve cut the man off . Move on with your life and let God deal with him. Oh well

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As a wife myself... I'd be cool with it because I would want to know! I think that you could have just sent a message asking for the sister to have the wife contact you. That way you'd be sure of who you are talking to and she could get the info directly from you!

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I would’ve tried to get in contact with her directly ....

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Nope.

Did I do the right or wrong thing???

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