Well I had my 2 month twins over my mums house and she had guests over to meet my kids. Well, the guests were outside smoking cigarettes and cigars and my twins were inside. When they came in they wanted to hold them they smelled awful like cigarettes and cigars I said no and did nicely explain why I really did.  think I offended them. I feel so bad and my mum wasn't too happy but I'm not risking my babies health for someone to hold them . I hope I'm not overreacting I just feel a bit bad. We live in Europe and tons smoke here like its normal.