My bf is 26 & it was his grandmother, on his fathers side, bday yesterday. We work grave yard shift. We get home from work around 8am & sleep until 2pm & then we wake again just to take a nap around 8pm before work. His mother calls him out of nowhere & says that they’re going to have a little party for his grandmother & that they will be coming over to our house to have the party. We live in a 700 ft 1 bedroom & she wanted to bring over 8 people & she told

Him at 5pm. Being last minute, he asks me and of course I explain to him I wish they told us sooner because the house is a mess, I’m still in pajamas & I’m about to go to sleep... that & it was last minute. The mother gets upset with him & yells at him saying that it’s family & that they shouldn’t have to get an invitation to come over & they should come over whenever because we comes over there after work whenever. He calls his grandmother & wishes her happy bday and tells her me and him will be taking her out on Friday to celebrate instead. Fast forward, we sleep & go to work. After work (7am the next day) his grand mother stayed the night over his mother’s house. So he has his dads mother, as well as his mothers mom, & his mother at the house (3 of them) They were telling him how it’s family & that they don’t need an invitation over & his dads mother (birthday girl) was saying how a woman shouldn’t be keeping their child from having family over or from seeing his family.. I was so upset and pissed but I just sat there & just tried being nice & respectable. I have no idea where she got that idea from I never tell my bf what to do in regards to his family! She also was saying a story about her step son who dated this girl who looked like she had money & didn’t want him with around his family & he married her & found out she was a fraud and all this stuff... she said this while she was looking at me.. I know she was referring to me because I make more money than my bf (( I make 6 figures, but I’m not the type to show what I have but you can see it from looking At what I have I guess.. I’m not big on money or showing it’s personal & money doesn’t make the person) any who, fast forward before we left my bfs mom was saying how we should go to Jamaica for our honeymoon when we decide to get married because my bf have been talking about proposing to me soon & his grand mother from dad side said, in disguise, MARRIAGE?! I just laugh it off & hug her & leave... i felt so uncomfortable & I felt like she was low key poking @ me and talking crap. It hurts me because I thought she was very nice.. I never expected this.. I feel like his mom & grand mother’s makes me not even want to marry this guy because they’re so dramatic, RUDE, pushy & controlling it’s so annoying..... am I wrong to feel that way?