My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 10 months now. We are planning to move in together soon and I'm so excited. The problem is we are going through a bit of a rough patch and I don't know what to to. He's 6 years older than me and has a lot more money, better childhood, resources etc. He has the tendency to say and do things that make me feel like he thinks less of me because at the age of 19, I don't have my shit together. These aren't super common but it's enough that it's really started to bother me. He sent me a text last night that basically said "if you want to move in with me you have to see a doctor about your sleep and figure out your stuff with your car" my car broke down 2 days prior to this and he knew I was having someone look at it to buy it, as I can't afford to fix it. He also is pressuring me to see a sleep specialist that I can't afford but we both suspect I have narcolepsy. He doesn't seem to get the differences in our lives and holds it against me. I have medical and college loan debt, I'm going back to school, I'm packing up my life to move 5 hours away with him, I'm trying to sell my broken car. He just doesn't seem to give me any credit for that, we are going to talk in person soon but I'm scared he's going to give me an ultimatum I can't make. I love him and he says he loves me but he makes it hard. I know I'm not perfect either, but when I try to talk about issues in person he accuses me of cornering him, when I text him that I want to talk about some stuff I he just ghosts me or ignores that part of the text. He's a grown ass man who acts like a boy sometimes, how do I get through to him?