This might be long but I don’t know what to do. For some background, I posted a few days ago about how my fiancé is possibly autistic and has some mental issues (ADHD and bipolar disorder). He was off his bipolar meds for a few days, took them yesterday and now doesn’t have them again so I don’t think they’re actually effective.

We live with my mom and her husband right now (our son is with his grandparents several states away), and it’s been really tough because my mom’s husband has such an issue with us. We’re moving out next month, but my fiancé has dealt with it by staying in the car a lot instead of being inside with me.

Last night about 7:30pm was the last time I saw him. We had run to the store and he told me he’d be inside eventually. I knew it would be a while because the husband was going to be home soon. I went to bed at 8pm and fell asleep at 9pm. Sometime in there, the husband locked the door and I didn’t realize it.

I woke up at midnight and my fiancé still isn’t inside, I come downstairs and see the door is locked. We don’t have keys to the house. I went outside to look for him and our car is gone. I looked again at 3am and he still isn’t here.

Also, he does not have his phone or debit card, he does have my card. The car is also in my name, not his.

It’s 9am now and he’s still not here. I have no idea where he is or what to do. He’s supposed to have a therapy appointment in two hours. The only clue I have to where he’s been is a $103 charge on my card from a gas station near his work. That’s a lot of money and I’m pissed because we don’t even have enough money for bills.

On top of this, I found out he had a pack of cigarettes yesterday after he was supposed to quit and he’s supposed to have quit months ago. So he lied to me about that.

What do I do guys? I’m pissed and upset and I miss him. I don’t know where he is and no way to contact him. He hadn’t slept at all yesterday (he works nights) so I’m guessing he might be asleep. He could’ve gone to his work to find someone but I don’t know. He hasn’t tried to call me.

My only option right now is to report the car as stolen since it’s in my name, which I will do if I don’t see him at all today.

I don’t understand because everything was fine with us last I saw him, but I also know the door being locked could’ve pissed him off. He’s not very mentally stable right now being off his bipolar meds.