Have you ever felt stuck between staying with your SO and leaving? I love him so much, but we have a lot of differences and he refuses to grow up and get a job. He has bipolar and I think I give him the benefit of the doubt and just say to myself that's why he's the way he is. But he looked at me today and said he wishes we didn't have our daughter...whom he loves but is a bit distant from. I know he's going through a lot right now (his dad died a month ago), but my daughter is two and he hasn't gotten a job..I don't want to just throw away 3 years, but I don't know what to do anymore...