I have little reason and no evidence to suspect my man of doing anything he shouldn’t be. But he has lied to me about things, little things, but that’s not really the point. Lying is lying. This was in the beginning of our relationship (3 years ago) ...he started a new job a couple months ago. Works a lot. But about the time he started working he started to initiate sex a lot less than ever before. We moved back to his home town, and new job...not initiating sex as often (or at all more recently) and my alarm bells are screaming. It makes no sense, if I initiate sex he is more than willing but...it’s just changed our relationship a lot. And I had a rough marriage so I feel like I’m forever damaged and I’ll always be thinking the worst possible things...

I guess I’m worried. We moved here, a lot of history for him. A job where he knows lots of ppl...not a huge town, and he grew up here. I feel like I’m over thinking but I also am worried. I know it’s most likely just from working a lot...but he’s a bit of a workaholic and always has been so I almost don’t believe that either.

I feel like my intuition is jacked from my past marriage...but I also don’t want to just disregard those alarm bells and be getting screwed over.

Anyway...I’m entirely too busy with life to stress about it much past when I’m laying in bed at night and the time it’s taken to post this. But I hope I’m just paranoid and completely wrong.