Let me start by saying we have an understanding and love the live we’re in. So and my fiancée really best friends I mean to the tee even moments when we get on each other’s nerves and have a moment. Any who we occasionally have threesomes I pick and then he picks usually always women that’s my taste. Period it’s not always just occasionally. Now it’s his turn to choose and he keeps dropping hints like it’s time but won’t look nobody knows our business it’s our thing but am I wrong for wanting him to choose and go look or should I just take matters into my own hands get me a regular girlfriend to keep close idk why I posted but I figured why not