I was over my boyfriends house and we made plans to have sex but ended up not doing it. Tbh I was okay with this because I was tired. Before I was about to leave he pins me on the couch and starts signaling that he wants to do it before I go. I really just wanna go home but he continues to try to take my pants off. I tell him with a smile on my face that I’m really not in the mood but he still is trying to have his way. He says “ come one babe we were supposed to do it.. you know you want it.” I continue to say no and he insists that I know I want it jokingly. Even though this is his way of playing around I still take offense to it because I know that pretending to rape is not okay. When he realizes that this offends me he apologized and felt remorse but then said maybe it’s not even him but my past experiences that are making me feel uncomfortable about what he did. What?? WTH is that supposed to mean?