Do I have to tell the birth father it’s his baby?

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He’s a huge verbally abusive jerkwad. 
Can’t I just say I was slutty and I don’t know ? 
Yes he’s that bad I would rather be known as a slut than have him know he’s the dad.

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Up to you. I personally would keep it to myself. If you ever plan to want child support though he will (obviously) have to know so something to think about.

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I don’t know. I don’t think it’s right to lie and he’ll never know he had a child and your child will never know his real father.

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U both made this baby.. ur responsible and so is he.. yea he’s bad and u don’t want him around but at the end of the day.. it’s going to be ur child that suffers.. and if the father ends up letting ur child down.. it will be his fault and not urs.

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Wtf? Why are people telling you it’s your choice to tell him he’s the father or not? Yes you should tell him! You don’t have to be with him & if you have proof he’s abusive to you you should get a lawyer & try to get him on supervised visits. You never know how he’ll treat his son, & if you’re lucky, he won’t want anything to do with the situation. You’ll only be hurting your child at the end of day by keeping him from having a relationship with his father.

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In my opinion I would tell the truth but also mention that you don’t want him involved (if that’s what you want). But then it gets tricky if he responds that he would want to be involved in the babies life. I would ask a professional

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It's better to tell the truth & go for full custody. If he tries later to get a paternity test & be in the child's life courts will probably favor him bc you purposely lied & kept him from the child.

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Well morally I’d say you should tell him; however, I obviously don’t know him. You’re the one who has to deal with him forevermore if you have a child together so you gotta decide.

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I wouldn’t lie to him especially saying you were slut. He could absolutely use it against you in court if he asked for a DNA test. He could say you were sleeping around and didn’t even know who the father was, even though it’s not true. I would really think about this and meet with a lawyer to maybe see your options. If you want to get child support, you can take him to court and show how unfit of a parent he is. Or you can just let it be and not answer him in hopes he doesn’t question things.

Do I have to tell the birth father it’s his baby?

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