My boyfriend is in the navy and stationed in japan . He about 14 + hours ahead of me and it’s really hard to talk to each other. I’m a senior doing online school so it’s a little flexible for me stay up and talk but sometimes I’m really tired. I try to explain to him that I understand he busy , that sometimes he wants to party with his friends but at least tell me so I’m not staying up waiting for a FaceTime call. This started a argument and he was saying I need understand how he feels and I’m being irritating to him. I’ve been crying and I’m honestly not sure what to do about the situation....

I told him to talk to me when he done thinking I’m irritating but it’s hard because I don’t know what to do. I just wanted him to understand how I want him to communicate more with me so I know a routine of sorts. I’m not trying stress him out but it just sucks