So my hubby are ttc. We are very private people. The only app I post on is this one for advice ❤️.

We’ve been talking about keeping the pregnancy a secret, only telling a select few. I’m not just talking for a couple of months either.. I was thinking the full 9 months. Has anyone do that? How do you hide the bump if needed?

The reason why I’m thinking of doing this is because while pregnant with our daughter EVERYONE was giving me their opinion and sometimes that opinion would clash with another family member or my own beliefs and it would start an argument. I just want this pregnancy to be about us and enjoying our pregnancy, which we’ve waited so long for.

Also, I want to know what the gender is. Would it be wrong to keep it a secret? Even from the ones we tell??

Repeat of questions:

1) is it wrong to keep pregnancy a secret for 9 months and how to succeed in it.

2) keeping gender a secret. Is it wrong?

TIA!!