Is it normal my daughter is not ready for potty training at all?

She’s literally terrified of the potty. I even mention it to her like when I can tell she poops I say “let’s sit on the potty” or something and she starts crying and looks really scared. She won’t go near her potty. She’s sat on it a few times apparently for her dad (we are separated) and has even gone for him if shes watching a show while she sits on it. But for me she won’t even go near it!! I guess she’s just not ready but she’s about to be 2 and a half in May, feel like she should be ready?? Or at least not terrified of her potty? And nothing traumatic has happened to her on the potty so I don’t know why she’s so scared of it. When I change her diaper she wants to see her poop lmao so I know she’s curious about it all, but she is absolutely horrified to sit on the potty. I see other two year olds who are completely trained and it makes me feel like she’s behind. She used to tell me when she went poop but now she won’t even tell me. And the separation of me and her dad happened a while ago so it’s not that