So my man and I have been dealing with this issue that he can only orgasm once in a day.

So if I'm at work and he decided to jerk off, then later he can't have intercourse with me..

This is something I'm not sure if other people have delt with but it's been very depressing for me.

I'm always thinking... Am I not hot enough for him to want to have intercourse with later? At least again?

We've been together for almost five years.. I would think this would change...

But here, yesterday morning my husband and I had intercourse, which was amazing, and I thought well damn.. I know I'm gonna get horny again.. But I'll probably just be using my vibrator since we already had sex.

But something happened..

Right before we went to bed I decided to get a little dirty with him and for the first time he didn't reject me (usually he does if he's already orgamsed that day bc he's just self concious)

And so we ended up forplaying and then eventually intercourse.

And he orgamsed!

He's done it I think maybe twice before in our entire relationship.. But never wants to have sex a second time in one day.

Anyway, after we had intercourse, for the second time, he leaned over and says

"you know we are working our way to three times a day"

AND I KNOW this sounds so stupid, but for the man I so dearly love, this made me so excited and I told him not to talk dirty unless he was serious.

If anyone else is going through this let me know, unless I'm the only one!

I'm sure my husband is just going through confidence issues.