My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. The first two years were great. Communication was great, everything was great. Here recently it's like things have taken a turn. Probably within the past 6 months. Hes been in school for the past year and a half, and I have been the only one working and paying bills. I understand he needs to study and things like that, but he doesnt normally do that. He will come home and play his xbox for hours. Usually he will cook dinner because I dont get off until 11, but here lately he hasn't been. Hes just been lazy, immature, and irresponsible. He tells me hes going to get groceries. So I leave the bank card with him and he drops me off at work so he can drive the car. Instead or getting groceries he gets himself taco bell, comes home, gets drunk and plays on his xbox for the rest of the night. He also tells me he is going to help out with laundry and cleaning and dishes, but he does the bare minimum if that. I get so tired from working and doing everything. We were on the phone the other day and I asked him to check on the lease for our apartment since I know we will need to renew it soon, and he just says bye and hangs up. In the recent past when he drank too much he pushed me down, and I ended up with a knot on my head and a bruise on my arm. He claims and swears up and down he doesnt remember it. Hes just an ass to me when he drinks too much. Putting me down, asking how I'm tired because I only work 8 hour shifts and come home and do things. Hes broke up with me numerous time when drunk and says he doesnt remember it. And recently hes just been wanting sex when hes had something to drink. When hes sober he doesnt want to. When he has drank/drunk I dont want to have sex with him because all I can remember and see is what hes done and said when drunk. I love him so much, but I'm just starting to feel like this relationship is just toxic. He never comes to visit my family with me. They always ask him to, but he won't. Hes constantly making up excuses. It's been over a year since hes seen and of them. I always go visit his family when we go. I hate that he doesnt visit my familyMy heart hurts constantly over trying to figure out what to do. I just need help. My mom thinks I should end things, but she doesn't want me to because of her opinion. I just want to know other peoples stories. If anyone has been through this and what you did. 😔