This is my first baby and second pregnancy (first was a chemical/early miscarriage). I’m feeling super over protective. Like when she is born I’m antsy over people holding her, I don’t want males around her when she has her nappy changed (I want to respect her privacy and only me or husband/ my mum to do it) I don’t want people kissing her lips, certain people in my husbands family smoke and I’m worried about that, I don’t want anyone but me looking after her. I feel literally like a wolf guarding her pups. Normal? I know husband has a say to but to be honest I’m just like nope this isn’t allowed, this isn’t etc. Which I know is selfish 😩 did anyone else have this with their first?