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Two stories... one: I met a guy on tinder. We were more of fuck buddies than anything. One day he “beat “ my boobs so bad they were both black and blue... he then processed to choke me... my I was praying to go to let me make it out alive. I was in tears. All I could think about was I wasn’t going to make it back home to my parents. When I finally left I called my friends crying hysterically. I was petrified. I never in a million years would of thought that would happened to me. Yet I stayed on tinder..Two: staying on tinder led me to the most amazing guy in the entire world. I have never loved a guy like I do him. I want to marry this guy. After our first date I knew he was the one. We are celebrating our one year anniversary together. What I learned from Online dating sites. Never go to their house, until you’ve been seeing them a while. Do not tell them where you live until you have seen them a while. Meet in a public place. Don’t tell him anything super personal for a while. You have got to be very cautious when doing these things. WARNING: I posted these pictures to show you what he did to me. This wasn’t even the worst of it. This was just with my bra on.
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Be
You should take these photos to the authorities and report this sick fuck. So sorry for what happened to you 😢
Al
Yes!! He was actually very mean to me and we never were really officially dating. And I already was suffering from depression and anxiety from a past relationship. I know he had a girlfriend for a few month after I left that situation but I prayed for her safety all the time! He had even chocked me to where I could breath before. My now boyfriend was grabbing my next when we were in the bedroom and it freaked me out because of that guy and I told him “I don’t ever want to feel you grab my neck like that ever again” and we haven’t had that problem sense.
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so glad you got out of that 🙏 i hope he’s not still around traumatizing women! at least if he’s into bdsm or whatever you want to call that, he should be on a specific site for that or have it visible in his bio.
Met my hubs online. He’s the bomb diggity! Weed through the creeps. I do have some awesome stories and went on a lot of dates with dudes online. You never know who you will meet! But definitely meet in public and tell a friend where you’ll be, just in case. 😬
Ba
Oh! And make sure that you can tell them, “if I decide at any point I want to back out, I reserve that right.”
I my my husband on POF. There are definitely some creeps out there, though. Always meet in a public place. Don’t tell them where you live or let them pick you up for a date until you’ve gone out awhile—same for going to his house. Make sure someone always knows where you are. Remember that you’re not obligated to meet anyone, and if something feels sketchy, play it safe.
I met my current boyfriend on pof (plenty of fish) and he is the sweetest guy I've ever been with. Just like someone else said, meet in a public space, don't give out too much info about yourself and especially don't go to their house or have them come to yours upon first meeting them. And if they aren't understanding about meeting in a public place, run the other way. Good luck and be safe 😊
It’s kind of up to you when it comes to online dating it’s your responsibility to be cautious & trust your gut. I met my fiancé on POF but I made sure he wasn’t just some creepy serial killer I talked with him for awhile & when we met it was public place broad daylight. I wouldn’t dare just go hookup at a stranger’s house. IMO if you’re just trying to hookup it puts you at more danger. Just be careful & it’ll be fine.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not try online dating! I've tried online dating multiple times and the very last time I tried, I was forced into live chatting with a male and he'd force me to do sexual acts, if I didn't he would send anyone special to me the video. The only time he would leave me alone was if I was on my period. I would lie and say I'd be on my period for a whole week just so I wouldn't have to deal with it. Fortunately after two weeks, my oldest sister found the messages and reported the guy to the police. It turned out it was a guy I used to know back in middle school and we split ways and he moved to another school (I'm fifteen, sixteen at the time of this). PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take my advice and do not try online dating. I wanted to share this with you and any other young lady on this app to make them rethink online dating.
Met my BF on tinder two years ago and don’t regret it at all... there’s good and bad people just like everywhere else you just have to find the good ones. Also just don’t meet up with people without talking with them for a little while before hand and always meet up in a public place and tell someone where you are going. I suggest giving it a try!
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