AGHHH!!!! Im so upset! Hes driving me crazy!

Cherrie

He called me 7 times in 20 minutes and is upset. I called him back and he hung up on me. He does this all the time. I AM diabetic so he says he gets worried about the kids but im awake and have my pump on. He HAS done it before we had kids too so Im not sure if its just that or him being controlling. He will drive home then walk in and say. “Bye.” he will curse at me start Rolling his eyes, scoffing, or some equivalent. He says im at home and should be able to answer the phone no problem first time every time. I get scared when I miss his calls because he will get mad and sullen all day say im ridiculous and stupid if I think that his worry is misplaced or that I shouldn’t be able to answer the first time. And heaven forbid I miss a few this time was because ALL the idevices were dead. My phone was charging in our room and his sister stopped by to visit so I didn’t hear it ringing. Is he justified because im a diabetic? What can I say to squash this argument?