I lost my first at 9w, then early diagnosis of anencephaly led to a termination at 13w.

Everything this time looked great at ultrasounds through 20w, but I’m not scheduled for a follow up until 32w. We’re all in this time, actually bought furniture and clothes and made a whole registry for my upcoming surprise shower.

I’m so worried that something is going undetected and we’ll have awful news at our next visit.

Not many people know about our prior losses, so of course they see my concerns as unfounded and try to “comfort” me by saying how I’m overreacting and fine and I just need to “eat healthy and walk more”. 😬. Makes me want to scream.