I hate when people say that. Why can’t it happen because we’re trying? My husband has a stressful job and we don’t naturally have sex during the week so there’s no way we’d get pregnant without trying. I’m also naturally “driven” when it comes to these things so it will be a while before I “relax” or give up. Not bashing anyone who’s story turned out that way, it’s just frustrating that wanting something may be preventing you from getting it. 😢