Help, dull sex?!

McKenzie

My boyfriend and I have sex quite frequently, and lately it has become dull. In the beginning of our relationship had passionate sex, even though it went slow. And i love it but recently I've grown bored of love making. He is a very sweet guy, and he likes making love. He's gentle and its a emotional experience. It's not bad sex, he's amazing but i want to spice it up a bit. I want him to have rough passionate sex. I just wish that he would be more aggressive. When i try it takes him off guard. I just want some tips and advice on how to spice up my sex life so it isn't so sweet and sensual.