Ok, I have a confession to make...

I HATE having sex with my husband.

He just doesn't turn me on at all 🙄 him trying to turn me on is literally shaking my butt cheeks, or trying to finger me but going from the back (not anal) if you know what I mean. So then it just doesn't feel good. And he doesn't even like rub me, or anything, it's just straight for the fingers and deep! So it just hurts.

Then the sex part, ugh gosh the sex 😖

He just tries to rub my clit the whole time and half the time he's just too harsh so it doesn't even feel good. And then he goes to make out with me but his breathe will be disgusting so it's just EW.

And then I get so turned off I go dry, and the rest of the time it hurts.

I don't know how to tell him either!! I don't want to hurt his feelings or have him overreact and think I don't love him or something else dumb.

We use to have good sex, I just don't know what happened. It's nonexistent now and it sucks.