What do i do. MY MOM SHAMES SEXUAL ACTIVITY

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I am 19 and I just got tested positive for chlamydia and my mom does not know i am sexually active. also she shames the idea of me even having sex. I am afraid she will somehow find out threw out insurance that I have chlamydia and i just find myself more freaked out by the thought that my mom will find out. but my health comes first for me so i had to get medicine. i am so afraid of her finding out.

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I mean you're 19, you're an adult. You do what you want, if she doesnt like that there isnt much she can do. She cant really stop you from doing anything 🤷🏽‍♀️

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You can call your insurance company and explain that the bill goes to your mom and you’d like to be assured that your medical info will remain private. Ask them what it will say on the bill. Once i did that about a blood pregnancy test that I didn’t want my mom to see and my insurance was very understanding. They double checked and then assured me that my privacy would be protected on the bill. They also offered to send the bill to a different address. Sure enough, when my mom got the bill it just showed up as “lab work.” It’s part of their job to help you protect your medical info.

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I too had chlamydia from a previous relationship around your age. I went to Planned Parenthood and was able to get medication for it I told them that I didn’t have insurance and it cost me about $40 (this was about 6 years ago) I eventually told my mom and although she was disappointed in me not telling her sooner we knew we couldn’t change the past. Please don’t let your fear of telling her stop you from getting the treatment you need. I waited and now I have been trying to have a baby with my husband for 4 years but my left Fallopian tube is blocked because I didn’t get treated sooner.

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I don’t think she will find out through insurance. Your health comes first.

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She can find out if they mail her the EOB. It’ll just show that you went for a checkup and got an STD test I believe. Some insurances send them. Tricare sent me one for my dental appointments and it showed i had a cleaning and a cavity filled. So she may find out that way but I can’t say for sure. If she does just tell her you went in with UTI symptoms and they ordered STD tests since you’re prime age for STDS even though you don’t have sex. Then tell her it ended up being a UTI. They use the same antibiotics sometimes.

What do i do. MY MOM SHAMES SEXUAL ACTIVITY

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