I just don’t understand why women trap men into being dads. I think if a man is willing to sign over his rights, then the mom should leave it at that, and not to allow the guys to jump in and out of the children’s lives.

I’ve been in the situation and I’d rather have no dad then a dad that in and out.

Either the guy should choose to be a dad from the start or not at all. Instead of deciding when the kids 4 to be present.