Hey guys i would love to get ur opinion or something to help me feel a bit reassured about this... firstly i just turned 20 in January and I’ve got a fairly new bf but he’s the committed type and a business person so he has his own stuff, a place and everything and he wants me to be there with him wants me to live with him but for now being that I’m not ready to move in with him he just wants me to come over and sleep over whenever.

So I’ve never done this kinda stuff before with sleeping at a guys place and everything but i still live with my family and my grandmother is pretty much the person I wanna make aware of where things are headed because shes the one I don’t wanna disrespect by lying and sneaking around cause I don’t want it to happen that way i wanna do things right. So wat I’m asking you guys for is maybe some advice on how to make that step into transitioning from the girl always doing wats right or expected of her to the girl who starts living for herself and still not loose the people in her life.