Okay guys so I don't really know what to do the big problem I'm having right now is my boyfriend lives with his ex girlfriend, who also happens to be the first girl he ever had sex with. Yes I was aware of it the problem is when he told me about it he said he was just convenience they already lived together when they broke up and neither could afford living on their own so they are doing a roommate situation right now living in separate rooms of course, he also said that they only tolerated each other and never talked well whenever we are together he's texting her, he's blown off plans with me to do something with her instead, he defends her no matter what is said about her and no I'm not saying I talk shit about her just in general, last month he said her and her boyfriend broke up and since then our sex life has become non existent, and lastly the thing that made me like kind of sick of it all u accidentally bumped his phone off the table last night and it came unplugged so I picked it up to plug it back in I didn't even notice there was a text on the screen but he did and he snatched it out of my hands real quick of course it was the ex texting and now I can't stop thinking about all this shit because why snatch the phone like that if it was an innocent text? I just honestly don't think I can deal with this he is now saying he likes living with her and she's his friend and the only person he can open up to so yeah feeling super shitty right about now and don't know what to do.