In-laws offering wine... 🍷

So I’m almost 12 weeks pregnant. My pretty conservative in-laws (who know I’m expecting) have offered me wine, at least 3 times, during different occasions. Last night at dinner they said “so you’re not drinking any wine?” Not in accusatory way, but thought it was odd. Is this a generational thing? They’re in their 70’s and pretty old-school, but still. I just want special treatment like I’m pregnant, is that too much to ask?!? 🤣

Seriously though, has this happened with anyone else’s in-laws? I don’t judge anyone who drinks small amounts while pregnant, but for me, I’ve chosen to abstain 100%. Thoughts?