Hi ladies 😊

I’ve been with someone for about 6 months now and it’s getting a little serious. I have 4 kids from a previous relationship and he has 3. He respects my lifestyle and loves me. He encourages me and supports me in all ways. There are slot of things we have in common such as travel, marriage, the type of home, and feelings about relationship duties are mutual. He acts young at heart, but is mature and wise.

My question and my concern is our ages. I’m 35 years old and he is 50. He doesn’t look that old though. But ......my parents are 54! Yikes!

Since he is talking about marriage, it kind of bothers me if he would call my mother “ mom”. But our connection is so real. No one would know how old he is if were walking on the street. But I guess since I know I am considering all factors including how life will change as he gets older.

Anyone WITHOUT BASHING , can politely share their feelings about this subject?

Side note : his kids are 13,15,18