Will not spend any time looking at names so he can tell me what he likes.

Can not come up with any names he likes off the top of his head.

Also can not tell me what he does not like or what's an absolute no. Can never think of any.

Can't use the excuse that we don't know the gender yet. We're having a little girl. We've known for three weeks nearly. This was his main excuse before hand not to look at names, which I was fine with. It made sense not to waste time looking at names for both genders.

Got mad and claimed I'm pressuring him when I asked him nearly three weeks after we found out gender if he had thought of any names he liked. I've only asked him the one time, two and a half weeks after the ultrasound.

Does NOT want me naming the baby by myself. He says it would be unfair to him for me not to ask his opinion about names or not allow him to have input. He says he doesn't want his voice on the matter to be taken away.

Absolutely does not want to wait until the baby is born to name her. Neither do I.

Will not take three seconds to look at the list of two names I have, can not hold a conversation with me about it. His games/discord friends are too important to listen to me. I'm constantly interrupted or flat out ignored.

Says "yeah ok, later." When I ask him to have a serious conversation about it. Plays games until he goes to bed. It's been four days of this, just me trying to have an undistracted conversation with him to voice the names I do like at a time where he actually thinks about them for more than half a second and ignore me entirely for the games.

He's making no effort, giving no input, providing absolutely no help and acts like it's a chore to help name his child, but gets very irritable and mad when I suggest naming her myself. So what am I supposed to do? He's contradicting himself at every turn because he doesn't want to put the game down.

Before anyone asks, this baby was 100% planned. We were both excited to add on to the family, he's always wanted a little girl, especially this time since we already have a son. It was actually his suggestion that we started trying when we did. So it's not like he's in shock about the new baby or isn't ready.

What the hell do I do?