My whole pregnancy has been really rough. I’ve been posting & reading since I found out i was pregnant & I want to thank everyone for all the help & advice. I honestly don’t know where i’ll be at without this app.

My whole entire pregnancy (19 weeks) my child father had been trying to force me into having an abortion. just 10 days ago he was trying to give me money for an abortion. So i sent him a long text explaining how i feel (stress & depressed) & basically said i was done with him. i didn’t take it & I blocked him that same day. Well like 3/4 days later an unknown number called me & i answered it & it was him saying that he has been calling me & texting me for days trying to check on me and the baby. He then said he won’t bring up the abortion anymore and that he don’t need to be stressing me out. After a few hours I unblocked him & he’s been calling me, facetime & texting me everyday.

ok so here’s what’s concerning: now he’s picking out names for my son. Asking me to show him my belly. Talking about how he think the baby will look. Asking me questions like how do i feel about being stuck with him for life. He’s taking to me like these 5 months of hell he put me through never happened or the mean things he said never happened. I found out the he was having sex with multiple other people, he told me things like hell do anything in his power to make sure i don’t have my son. i’m just so confused. like did something happen between him and whoever he’s having sex with. I’ve been working on myself to stop thinking about him & don’t expect anything from him. Trying to mentally prepare myself to be a single parent and he come back different. i’m scared to get my hopes up.

I wanted to ask him what his motives are and why all of a sudden did he change and why / how can he act like the last 5 months didn’t happen. I’m about 5 hours away & can’t talk to him in person for another week but since he made contact with me all of these questions are burning in me. my friend said if i question him i might lead to the possibility of opening up something i can’t undo, like him going back to not wanting the baby again. so i was thinking about questioning him in person but i have to wait another week before i can see him in person.

what should i do? trust it or don’t? question him or keep my mouth shut.