Just need to get this off my chest.

Earlier my mother-in-law asked for pictures of my daughter, she didn’t ask me directly she asked her son. He didn’t tell me shit. My sister in law messaged me asking if Elva (mother in law) had called to ask me for pictures I say no why? She responded “She called fredo, asking for pictures of the girls” I said why would she want pictures if she knows we’re they live. (Sounds like I’m a total bitch just wait & read the rest) she said that’s what I told fredo, and he said idk but I’m not sending her shit (fredo is her other son) so I texted my bf and asked him “hey has your mom called you?” No reply I get a call about 30 mins later “hey babe my mom called wants you to send her pictures of bear” my response “why would I send her shit? She never comes to see her but demands pictures (we live across the street from each other about 4 houses in between) and he got mad started telling me off. I was like it’s unbelievable how she can take Brianna (her niece, their cousin) out and about buy her numerous gifts and not complain but when its about our kids it’s a big freaking deal.

My mother in law has always treated our daughter and nieces like shit not once has she bought them a single gift, not that they need it but for Brianna she bends over backwards. Her parents are richer than us 4 put together. For Christmas she bought her a 250$ Battery Jeep, and not even a Christmas card for the girls. So yeah it irritates me how she demands we send her pictures but she can’t cross the street and come see my daughter. Won’t even drive 15 mins across town to see the other girls. Only time she ever sees the girls is because we invite her out but even then she always brings Brianna along and makes our daughters less my daughter is only 7 close to 8 months, my nieces ate 2yrs & a 3 month old. Brianna and my niece are the same age and she always gets upset when grandma doesn’t hold her when all grandma does is tell her no. And Brianna is over protective of my mil she will fight w Vianney because she’s too close to “her auntie” & all my mil will do is bitch because Brianna is upset & im tired of it.

How would you approach this situation? Talking to her isn’t really an option she will pull the victim card and her sons will only say she’s human and will make mistakes...