My husband and I are both friends with a lot of gay people. BUT my husband has made a new friend with this gay guy (we'll call him John). They go to bars and shit by themselves which is fine with me. I've met John and I like him but I always thought he was attracted to my husband. 👀 So they go out this week for drinks and my husband comes home around midnight (again, I'm okay with this because it isn't repeated behavior). John messages me 6 times to make sure that my husband got home okay. Calls my husband 12 times and texts him 20 times. At this point I'm like what the actual fuck, this bitch is crazy! My husband told me to text John back on his phone and tell him he's home. I scroll up to read all 20 messages he's sent and there was a picture of my husband's bottom half, like belly button down. Of course he is dressed and it looks like he was just standing at the bar with a drink in his hand. The text with it said "Sooooo, I'm kind of glad you went home because I was starting to check you out." BITCH. WHAT THE FUCK. I havent said anything to my husband yet because he hasn't even seen the text but what the fuck! I'm tempted to message this John bitch and let him know he won't be seeing my husband again because he's an obsessed psycho. WHAT WOULD YOU DO?!? I honestly don't even know what to do!

Update: we just talked about this. All I said was, so do you think "John" is into you or something? He said, funny you asked that; he has texted me the night that we went out and said he was glad I went home because he was starting to check me out. I said what the fuck, that's weird! Why would he feel comfortable saying that knowing you're married to a woman?! He said I don't know babe, he was really plastered that night.. I thought it was kind of weird but hes never said anything like that before so I just figured it was the alcohol talking. Don't worry though, whenever we hang out again you'll be there.

I don't think my husband is curious but he is aware that both sexes find him attractive and brushes it off like nothing ever happened.