Avoiding socialising?!

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Is anyone else really avoiding socialising until the time they are ready to announce? I feel as if im hiding this massive secret and everytime i see friends and family i think they can see the bump. Also the way i react to comments like "shall we all go for a drink" and everyone knows i would usually say yes but of course would now be a no! How do i go into hibernation for 2 weeks until my 12 werk scan?!