Background.. my husband is an entrepreneur and I’m in grad school but out of work right now. I’ve been out of work since December 2018 due to company switches and layoffs. However, I am looking for, and believe I do have, a new job.

My husband opened a business in June 2017.

While business is good, money made is invested back into the business. So while we’re making money, we have very little take home. I had a good job and have been picking up the slack financially since we moved together in 2012. I haven’t kept track of how often, but it was consistent. And now that I’ve needed him for the last 2 months, we’re falling apart.

Currently, I am 6 months pregnant (due beginning of June) and my husband just told me that my only worth is giving birth. He has NEVER been emotionally abusive to me in the past, but he has been super critical of everything I say/do/watch/wear since December. He also drinks more and will end up sleeping at a friends house 90 percent of the time that he hangs out. We haven’t been on dates or intimate in months.. and dates for me can be coffee/lunch dates. Cheap things...

I just feel so low right now, and feel like I failed my unborn daughter already. I truly don’t know what to do. I love my husband and I want us to work, but I don’t know if he’s willing to. And I won’t beg someone I love to stay somewhere they are unhappy...