We have been trying to conceive for 2.5 years now. Gotten pregnant twice both miscarried at 12w. My periods have been horrible since, heavy and very painful. It was so bad last month I ended up in the ER I was in so much pain. My blood pressure sky rocketed and I had lost a lot of blood. ER doc ran blood tests and everything was fine. Said my blood pressure was so high bc I was in so much pain. Gave me meds, said follow up with your OB on Monday, and sent me home. So Monday I went and saw my OB and he said bc of my miscarriages, that’s why my periods are so bad. And I needed to lose weight before I got pregnant again. I’m (235lbs). I know I need to lose weight and I’m trying. So he said I could try the bc pill to hopefully decrease the intensity of my periods. I just finished my first month and I’ve been sooo emotional and my period is just as bad. My period was actually 4 days late and my SO was so happy that it hadn’t come and then later that day it did. I’m just venting I guess. Ugh 😑 I just want a baby.