I've been dating a man for about a year now. He has 2 kids from a previous marriage and I have 1. (We both had cheating spouses). Anyways, his kids are 12 and 14. My daughter is 1 1/2.

My boyfriend is SO wonderful. I've never been treated so well, but I just don't know if I can make it work. His 14 year old is a boy and we get along pretty good for the most part. But his 12 year old daughter is so snotty. I know shes going through a lot of changes at this age and is still learning to deal with her parents splitting up. However, she gets SO jealous when her dad gives me or my daughter any attention. She always storms off to her room. We only spend weekends there, so she still gets 2 evenings a week with her dad without us there.

I love his kids, but I just don't know if it's fair to them or to me to keep doing this.. my boyfriend keeps saying that we just need to push through, but I just don't know how much longer I can..