Okay so I’m pregnant with my baby due late August .. my sister and mum have planned this trip to Bali in November my newborn will be about 10 weeks old and I have two older girls aged 4 and 2 :)

So my mum and sister are telling me to stay home with my new baby and they will take my kids across the country and they never have left the country at all let alone been away from me any longer than 2 days. I am telling them they are not going without me and their dad there and they are both guilt tripping me saying “that’s unfortunate they are going to miss out on time with family, it’s not their fault you’ve got a new baby” and it pisses me the fuck off that they think they got a say in what happens with my two kids I don’t trust them being in another country without me and I said I will check with the doctors to see if my baby can fly because I won’t let them go without me and they both had this sour look on their face honestly I wanted to punch them both in the face