NEED an outsiders opinion on this

Carrie

So...recently I've been toying with the idea of dating again. I split with my.babies father at 7 months pregnant and noah is now 6 months old. The last time I had sex was conception (bad pregnancy turned toxic relationship) although his dad is involved in his life there is zero chance of us getting back together. So I've been going about my life the way a new first time mum usually does...until the sex drive suddenly relighted. And long story short noah went to his daddy's...mummy had a bath and an old friend came over (who is also an ex but we have always spoke) and one thing led to another...it was nerve racking but somehow like old times-the sex was always mind blowing. So anyway back on track...I've been thinking and IF anything was to come of this is it wrong?...is it too early after having noah? Noah will ALWAYS come first in my life. But I'm feeling more and more that I just wasn't a happy relationship with a decent person and he is a decent person we split because we were both in different places but now we're older etc etc etc..also I'm not sure how he feels about dating right now himself and more importantly how he feels about dating me...I'm to nervous to approach this subject haha.

*update*

So my birthday is in a couple of weeks and were currently discussing going away for a couple of nights to the Scottish highlands....

My question is? Is it too early to date? And does it sound like I'm clinging to the first guy who's showing me a bit of attention?