So, just had my second kiddo on the 22nd (Last Friday) and my first will be two on March 14th! I'm still not feeling that connection yet. I keep comparing to my other daughter and I'm stressing myself out. My first looks identical to her father dark hair, tan skin, light eyes...he has very dominant traits so I 100% expected that with this one, but nope....she is blonde with whitey white skin like me! Every time I look at her I'm super thrown off by the difference and she's much more petite than my other. Clearly, I need to stop comparing lol, but putting that aside I just don't feel that bond yet. I feel terrible that I don't. I love her of course, but I'm just so connected with my first I don't know how to spread the love. Am I crazy?!? Is this just my hormones?!? Has anyone else experienced this? Thanks so much!