So just a bit of background, I'm a SAHM. I take the kids to school, take my step son to therapy twice a week, do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry etc. My best friend is getting married march 22nd and her "bachelorette" beach day is the 9th. It's going to be an all day ordeal since all of her friends, mom, young sisters, mother in law and grandma are coming. So you know it's nothing wild, we are just going to St. Augustine for the day to go shopping, have lunch, see the sights, and go to the beach to have a girl's day. So my husband is giving me a hard time trying to guilt me into not going (he guilted me into not even having one when we got married). Because he's like convinced it's going to be this raging party adventure with strippers. I can promise it's not these people are clean cut and yeah drink occasionally but not get wasted with younger people and grandmother's around. It's just going from 10am-10Pm. Now mind you, I'm with the kids 24/7 my husband never has to deal with them alone and it's been 2.5 years. I told him that I wanted to go but I wasn't asking permission because I shouldn't have to. I feel like he's completely capable of taking care of the kids for 12 hours. When I do it 24/7. I mean is that unreasonable? I really don't think it is. I NEVER take girls nights and never do anything with anyone on weekends because he wants me at his beckon call when he's not working. Is this fair?